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May 27th, 2009It has been exactly 20-days since I last wrote for our Mashup. My deep apologies to our readers and fellow bloggers. I have clearly been distracted by an unexpected big wave of change of which I will spare the details on this post.
Disruptive changes are good. It tests one’s capabilities to assess, focus and re-calibrate in many areas of your life. It is a character building experience – going above and beyond your comfort zone no matter what the odds are or how low you are feeling. More specifically, embracing the change without aggravating the other important factors of your life – not an easy feat. A dear friend reminded me in the early weeks “Jess, you are still the Founder and Principal of Mavin Digital, Inc., you have your team, clients, friends and community.” That was a defining moment.
Lessons Learned: When Change Happens
As a new entrepreneur and startup owner it can be truly damaging when change happens unexpectedly. It is easy to shutdown, yet not the best solution when you are growing a business. Here’s what I learned from this experience:
- Seek counsel from your trusted circle. The first life-line I called on (and continue to do so) are my friends. Friends I know who at any given point in time will offer a fair point of view, provide support and encouragement.
- Honest assessment of the problem. A quiet self-evaluation of the change is always useful. I believe in the chemistry of cause and effect. Accept the flaws that occurred between point A and point B then ask the question: Are there defining solutions that could get you back on track? As someone who firmly believes in the power of the human spirit my answer is yes. Though, the realist in me says when your very best does not move mountains you simply have to let go. It is not an admittance of defeat nor a reflection on your abilities. It simply means you are human.
- Admit in hurts. I’m pretty darn good at this. The simple act of admitting pain during any major changes in your life is soothing and I believe helps you heal.
- Allow yourself to heal. This means you’re not taking the memory of that pain with you to point C. Get up and march forward like you were doing it for the first time.
- Get back on track. Don’t lose sight of the other important factors in your life. I slowly reminded myself that as an entrepreneur I have a responsibility to my company, my team, my clients, my friends and my community. That is a lot of responsibility. Change is a poor excuse to under perform.
Another dear friend reminded me and I firmly believe in “change is a gift.” Blessings and good fortune are waiting around the bend. Thank you friends for the support and encouragement.
Special thanks to my rockstar intern, Christopher for creating these lovely Twitter backgrounds! Enjoy!
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